A Nigerian woman has taken to social media to express her distress and frustration after her family convened a meeting to discuss her marriage status.
The meeting culminated in an ultimatum: she must get married this year or face being disowned by her family.
The woman shared her plight on TikTok, posting a video featuring her distraught face alongside a caption that explained her situation.
According to her, the family meeting ended with a unanimous decision that she must bring home a husband before the end of the year, or risk being completely cut off from her family.
The post suggests that her family is pressuring her to conform to traditional societal expectations, as she is deemed to be of marriageable age.
However, the woman's reluctance to comply with their demands has led to this ultimatum.
The post has sparked a flurry of responses from concerned individuals who have flooded the comments section with words of encouragement and support. Many have condemned the family's stance, labeling it as outdated and oppressive.
Others have offered words of comfort, urging the woman to stay true to herself and not succumb to familial pressure.
This incident highlights the ongoing struggles many women face in Nigeria, where societal expectations and family pressure can often dictate their life choices.
The woman's courage in sharing her story has sparked a vital conversation about the need to respect individuals' autonomy and choices, particularly when it comes to matters of the heart.
See some reactions below:
Great creature ๐: โMe and my mom last night she is after my life ๐๐๐๐๐๐.โ
user82012092084061: โSame pressure here bby girl. but we go overcome it together. letโs put our trust God.โ
@adeeleniyan: โCom letโs marry โ please am also facing same problem ๐.โ
Dee Ukeme: โYou go marry me? single life don tire me ooo๐ญ.โ
imoleayoayanfeolu: โtitle of the music.. old that I canโt remember the song title again, I just know I used to sing it back then.โ
diranadebayo: โmaking a list of all the males that signified interest here to send to your family so they can pick oneโฆ The wedding must happen these year ooooo.โ
OLAHNIREETY: โwhere interview form, make I start from there ๐๐๐๐.โ
Halloween.cre8tive: โstill in the same boat my pastors are telling me to go and marry.โ
tbabe1236: โbride price don dey hungry dem, dey don 4get say marriage is not a game u can rush into, it need alot patient 2 choose wisely wat dey owe u is congrat.โ
okunolaronkevicto: โAv already warned them not to worry me again or else Iโll block them one by one ๐๐คฃ I donโt care, Its over to God.โ
cozy๐คฉ๐๐ฅ:ย โsend me your bride price list no time, court or church choose one, let me know our honeymoon vacation madiv or Texas? i will be waiting for your reply.โ