In a surprising twist of domestic discourse, a Nigerian man recently took to social media to express frustration over his 14-year-old sister’s unexpected embrace of feminist ideals.
The user, identified as @DiepreyeMoses on Twitter, shared his dismay after his younger sister reportedly refused to prepare eba when their brother asked her to do so.
In the now-viral post, the man accused feminists of corrupting his sister, saying her response to the chore request was rooted in gender equality rhetoric.
“Bro, feminists have corrupted my 14-year-old sister,” the tweet began.
“My younger brother told her to go and make eba, and she’s now saying men and women are equal. Why is he telling her to make eba?”
According to @DiepreyeMoses, his sister’s only household responsibilities are to wash plates and occasionally make eba. He added that, despite the light workload, her recent statements reflected a deeper influence that he attributed to feminist ideologies, possibly picked up on social media platforms like TikTok.
The frustrated older brother described his sister as the most favored child in their household. He revealed that the family is even planning to send her to school abroad, emphasizing that she lacks nothing.
“She’s the most favored and loved at home,” he wrote.
“Our family is even planning to send her to school outside Nigeria. Why would she be having the same thoughts as miserable feminists?”
The tweet continued with his disbelief, questioning why his sister would adopt such views when she is provided with everything she needs.
“She doesn’t lack anything at all. I and my parents do everything to give her all she needs, so why these miserable thoughts?”
The situation has seemingly pushed the man to consider drastic measures to address what he perceives as a growing problem.
“Or should I report to my mom or seize her phone? Because she’s definitely learning about these things from TikTok,” he wrote.
He also recalled a time when he and his brothers were responsible for all the household chores before their sister turned 13.
“I and my brothers were the ones doing all the house chores before she got to 13 years. We no complain o,” he said, lamenting that it’s now her turn to contribute, but she has begun advocating for equality.
“I’ve been the house cook for over eight years now o, and I’m still the chef of the house,” he added, underscoring his point that traditional roles in their home were never a point of contention until now.
The tweet quickly gained traction, sparking widespread debate about the dynamics of gender roles, the impact of feminist ideals on family life, and the power of social media in shaping young minds.
Critics of @DiepreyeMoses argued that the girl’s desire for equality and shared responsibilities was valid, given that everyone in the household seems to participate in chores.
“She’s literally asking for fairness. Why is that a problem?” one commenter replied.
Another added, “If you’ve been cooking for years and didn’t complain, why is it now an issue if she says the work should be shared equally?”
Some users pointed out the contradiction in his narrative, highlighting how he proudly noted his years of cooking and doing chores without complaints, only to take issue with his sister’s perspective.
“Funny how you think it’s fine for you to do chores but a feminist corruption if your sister doesn’t want to,” wrote another critic.
Meanwhile, others expressed concern about the broader implications of the man’s statements.
“Calling her thoughts miserable simply because she wants equality shows the kind of environment she’s growing up in. No wonder she’s looking for alternative views,” one user noted.
However, supporters of @DiepreyeMoses sympathized with his plight, blaming social media for introducing young people to ideologies that challenge traditional African values.
“Social media is a breeding ground for these kinds of things,” one commenter said.
“She’s just 14. Take her phone away and teach her properly before it gets worse,” another advised.
The incident has reignited debates about the role of feminism in African societies, where traditional gender roles often remain deeply entrenched.
While some argue that such ideologies empower young girls to challenge oppressive systems, others fear that they erode cultural values and disrupt family harmony.
This clash of perspectives is not unique to the Nigerian context. Across the globe, families are grappling with similar issues as younger generations embrace progressive ideas that often conflict with long-standing traditions.
For many, the debate boils down to a question of balance: How can families honor cultural practices while adapting to the changing views of their children?
In the case of @DiepreyeMoses and his sister, the challenge lies in navigating these conflicting ideologies without alienating one another.
The brother’s openness about his frustrations may indicate a willingness to engage in dialogue, even as he struggles to reconcile his sister’s newfound beliefs with the values he holds dear.
As the tweet continues to generate conversations online, it’s clear that this family’s experience has struck a chord with many Nigerians who face similar dilemmas in their own homes.
For now, it remains to be seen whether the young girl’s stance will soften or if her family will adapt to her evolving views on gender roles and equality.
What is certain, however, is that the influence of social media and the spread of feminist ideals will continue to challenge traditional norms, sparking conversations that extend far beyond the boundaries of any single household.
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