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Nigerian media sensation Toke Makinwa has once again set the internet ablaze—this time not with fashion statements or viral clapbacks, but with a candid confession that has sparked an unexpected wave of marriage proposals from hopeful admirers. Just hours after the lifestyle entrepreneur, author, and vlogger hinted at her willingness to embrace marriage again—even as a second, third, or fourth wife—the proposals began rolling in, fast and unfiltered.
The media personality, who is no stranger to being at the center of online buzz, appeared on a recent podcast where she spoke with refreshing honesty about her evolving perspective on love, relationships, and companionship. In a tone that was as humorous as it was reflective, Toke said, “In all honesty, at this point in my life, if I have the opportunity to be the second, third, fourth, or fifth wife, I will take it.” She went on to explain that her career as a boss in multiple ventures can often be exhausting and that sometimes, she simply craves the comfort of leaning on someone else. “I am the boss everywhere and that could be tiring. You feel like you need someone to lean on—someone that could decide what’s for dinner. Must it be me?”
The podcast clip, as expected, went viral within minutes, lighting up social media timelines and WhatsApp group chats across the country. But what no one quite predicted was the volume and speed of proposals that would follow.
Not one to let a moment slip by, Toke took to her social media hours later to post a screenshot of her inbox. The emails, complete with subject lines that left little to the imagination, came from men clearly ready to put a ring on it—or at least try. One email read with dramatic boldness: “GOAL: Can we get married? – proposes marriage, based in Ibadan, works as senior data analyst.”
That lone message seemed to sum up the unexpected wave that followed her podcast remarks. From men in Lagos to Ibadan, Port Harcourt to Abuja, Toke’s inbox is reportedly under siege by suitors who see her openness as an invitation—and are wasting no time. Some have even jokingly referred to it as the “Toke Makinwa Marriage Challenge,” suggesting that men across the country are now lining up for a chance at love with the influential figure.
Social media, never one to remain silent, reacted swiftly and with its signature mix of humor, sarcasm, and sharp commentary. “I thought they said nobody wants to marry her,” one user wrote. “The reality is she’s not even talking to the average or any Nigerian. She’s looking for a rich or wealthy man to be 2nd, 3rd or 4th and 5th wife to.” Another offered a more cynical take: “They just want to have a taste of her national cake.”
The reactions were as divided as they were entertaining. Some users empathized with her remarks about emotional fatigue and the pressures of always being “the strong one.” Others, however, questioned the sincerity of the sudden flurry of proposals, suggesting some of the men were more intrigued by Toke’s fame and beauty—particularly her well-known figure—than a real desire for partnership.
Yet, even amid the trolling and online banter, there were voices that supported her right to want love again—on her own terms. “She has a right to desire companionship, no matter what number wife she chooses to be,” one fan tweeted. “Being honest about what you want is not a crime.”
Toke Makinwa, who has long built a brand around unfiltered conversations and living unapologetically, doesn’t seem fazed by the controversy. In fact, she appears to be enjoying the moment. Known for her confident presence both on and off camera, Toke is no stranger to public scrutiny—and often turns it into content gold. Whether it’s her past marriage, her business ventures, or her physical transformation, she has remained transparent and in control of her own narrative.
The podcast episode may have opened a door Toke didn’t fully expect, but it also highlighted a cultural tension around modern love, traditional roles, and the ever-shifting expectations placed on women in the spotlight. Her comment about not always wanting to make dinner decisions struck a chord with many women who find themselves constantly “on” in every aspect of life—career, family, and relationships.
For a woman who’s spent over a decade navigating fame, heartbreak, entrepreneurship, and everything in between, Toke’s words feel less like a plea for attention and more like a moment of honest vulnerability wrapped in her signature glam. If the reaction from her admirers is anything to go by, she’s not alone in wanting a softer landing in her personal life.
As screenshots of marriage proposals continue to circulate, it remains to be seen whether Toke will take any of them seriously. One thing is certain, though—she’s reminded the internet once again that she knows exactly how to command attention, stir the pot, and spark a national conversation. All in one podcast appearance.
So, will the next wedding bells we hear be for Toke Makinwa? Or is this just another chapter in her ever-evolving, always-engaging public life? One thing is for sure: the men have spoken, and Toke’s inbox has never been busier.