
In a dramatic turn of events that has sparked widespread conversation on social media, a Nigerian man has taken to Twitter to express his heartbreak and disappointment after allegedly sending his girlfriend the sum of one million naira for Easter without receiving so much as a thank you. The user, known by the handle @KvngGenerous, posted a tweet on Easter Sunday that has since gone viral, stirring a flurry of reactions, debates, and hot takes across the country.
According to the now-trending tweet, @KvngGenerous claimed to have sent his girlfriend N1 million around 4:00 PM that day, presumably as a surprise gift for the festive celebration. However, hours later, he expressed his frustration, noting that she hadn’t called or even acknowledged the generous transfer.
“Sent my baby 1m and she hasn't call to say thanks since 4pm. This is why I don't like dating Yoruba girls in Lagos. Bunch of ingrates,” he wrote, lashing out not just at his partner but taking a swipe at an entire ethnic and regional group in the process. The tweet triggered instant controversy, drawing in thousands of likes, retweets, and heated replies.
While some followers empathized with his pain and disappointment, others criticized his generalization of Yoruba girls in Lagos, accusing him of being insensitive, tribalistic, and immature. The tweet, many argued, was not just a personal rant but a loaded statement that reinforced harmful stereotypes and could fan the flames of ethnic tension.
“This isn’t about her tribe. It’s about who she is as a person,” one Twitter user responded. “You gave someone a gift expecting a reaction and didn’t get it. That doesn’t mean all Yoruba girls in Lagos are ingrates. Be serious.”
Others, however, sided with @KvngGenerous, suggesting that his girlfriend’s silence was a red flag. "You sent someone a million naira and she couldn’t even call? Not even a simple ‘thank you’? That’s wild. I’d be hurt too," another user commented.
The drama has since evolved beyond the couple’s private relationship into a larger discussion about expectations in romantic relationships, the culture of entitlement, and the dynamics of giving and appreciation. On TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter Spaces, users have been dissecting the incident, using it as a case study for everything from gender roles to money etiquette in modern dating.
Several commentators weighed in with their opinions, arguing that financial gifts should not be transactional. According to some, if the motive behind the N1 million gift was truly love and generosity, then the giver shouldn’t have needed a phone call or public acknowledgment to validate it.
But others pushed back, insisting that expressing gratitude, especially for such a significant gesture, is basic courtesy. “One million naira is not pocket change,” said a lifestyle blogger on Instagram. “Even if you didn’t ask for it, the least you can do is show appreciation.”
Amid the online uproar, attention soon turned to the woman at the center of the saga. While her identity remains unknown, some netizens have speculated about her reasons for not responding promptly. A few even suggested she may have had technical issues with her phone or didn’t see the alert in time. However, as the hours turned into days with no update from @KvngGenerous or the girlfriend, the speculations only grew louder.
Adding to the drama, the tweet has now become a meme, with social media users creating parody posts where they claim to have sent extravagant gifts or cash to their significant others only to be ignored in return. Others turned the situation into a commentary on performative relationships, accusing both parties of lacking emotional maturity.
The controversy also exposed deep undercurrents of gender politics and societal expectations. Some women online noted that women are often expected to be overly grateful for every financial gesture, while men sometimes use money as a tool of control or validation.
Still, others pointed out that the situation reveals the fragility of relationships built on material generosity rather than emotional connection. “If you’re giving money just to be thanked, is it really love or just ego?” a social media influencer asked in a viral TikTok video discussing the case.
Meanwhile, the backlash against the ethnic slur in @KvngGenerous’ tweet hasn’t died down. Several Yoruba users and allies have demanded an apology, with some even reporting the tweet for hate speech. “You can be hurt and still not be disrespectful. Dragging an entire tribe because one person didn’t thank you is not just immature, it’s dangerous,” a lawyer wrote on LinkedIn.
As the story continues to trend, many are waiting to see whether the girlfriend in question will break her silence or whether @KvngGenerous will offer further explanation—or perhaps, an apology. But even without those answers, the tweet has already left its mark.
In just a few sentences, a man’s personal heartbreak has snowballed into a national conversation, raising uncomfortable questions about love, money, entitlement, and identity in the digital age. Whether or not the relationship survives this public fallout remains to be seen, but one thing is certain—when it comes to matters of the heart, especially in the era of social media, nothing stays private for long.